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марта 09

That Secret Called Beautiful Belief

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"Belief, makes things real.
Makes things feel, feel alright.
Belief, makes things true.
Things like you, you and I..."*

Dear Gabrielle,

Sombody had me gobsmacked. Out of the blue, she complained,

"Elle, no matter how hard I try, I can never

be a boy magnet like you."

"What?" I asked incredously, thinking I must have heard her wrong. Surely, she did not say those things?

" You walk into a room and hog attention.

Where does that leave plain Janes like me?"

My jaw just dropped, my face flushed red. I went speechless for a bit. Is she kidding me Gabe?

I mean, this is the girl whose cheekbones, I would die for. Her skin is sickeningly flawless. Her hair, long and silky smooth. She has a megawatt smile that lights up the room. I should be jealous and I am, trust me! Hence, I repeat my question- is she kidding me?

I am not one to disregard people's feelings. So I tried my darnest best to see things in her perspective.

Okay. Maybe she's half right. I have this bizarre tendency to attract them boys. Heck, they may not be the best boys for me, but they are boys nevertheless. As far as I am concerned, I am not better than her in any way.

I started looking at myself in the mirror. Very critically, if I may add. Us girls, have the tendency to do that. I see all my fatal flaws. Ok, I am passably pretty (after loads of effort by the way!

) but a text book beauty I am not. Much to my annoyance, I have long accepted it. The fact is, I am not more beautiful, nor am I richer, nor smarter than said friend.

So what is with the boys flocking phenomenon? What makes men flock to one woman and not the other? I may just have an inkling but I figured it best to have it confirmed from the horse's mouth. Not like I'm saying you men, are horses, by the way!

I inquired from that trusted male source, the platboy. Yes, HE who does not sugar coat things and tells me as it is.

"Elementary, my dear Elle," one platboy went. "Both of you are equally pretty. The only difference is that when you walk into a room, you shine."

What am I, a light bulb?

Like, how vague can he be right? So I asked him to elaborate..

"Elle, a woman can be gorgeous but if she does not believe in herself, she is instantly less attractive to men. You have to believe in yourself before anyone can believe you. Dig?"

Dig. Okay, platboys may sometimes come up with the weirdest theories but this, I have to agree with. He has a point. True greatness starts with the right state of mind.

There is only so much you can do physically to be attractive I suppose. After all is said and done, it all boils down to how you feel about yourself.

I finally told my friend the secret to being attractive.

It is this thing called 'Beautiful Belief'. It leads to self confidence and shows through a girl's walk and her talk.

Now, I am not sure if it is a fool proof boy magnet tactic. Like who cares about tactics anyway? We are talking about matters of the heart here. Best it comes from, errrr, the heart...

I can guarantee however beautiful belief is bound to make anyone feel great about themselves any old way. And when they do, the spotlight will start shining. Better not forget to bring those shades out!

My, my is it blinding in here or is it just you Gabe?

Passionately Believing Beautifully,

Elle Sheri xo

*Excerpts from Gavin deGraw's ''Belief"

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	engdahl emmaпишет: Its nice to read this bloggs. Its like getting a insite in a nother persons life. Thanks for the entertaintment. /chloe нояб. 27
	Susanпишет: where on earth have you dsappeared to?? I know you're b-day is up and coming. I hope it's great!! xoxo, susan апр. 3
	Rowe Stephen Craigпишет: My Dear Elle, MSN Spaces Online International New World News is in need of a London correspondent. Hmmm. Did not take me but a moment to think of you. Check it out, and email me if you want a desk. As ever be well. Stephen апр. 3
	Karenпишет: Just coming by to say hi and see how things are going... hugs Karen апр. 2
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	Adaraпишет: OK so next time you make it out here to the US, me and you girl are gonna light up the place! Ok?~J апр. 1
	Memmie.пишет: wow ! ur amazing ^_^ truely inspiring && very .. real ! {dont no how else to describe it} sorry hu's Gabrielle :s ?? lOve >> Memmie xx март 29
	Без именипишет: Please sign up for the easter guestbook signing event! Here: www.spaces.msn.com/barrettboy Tom март 28
	Shannonпишет: have you been slacking on your posts, too? there seems to be entirely too much of that going on. i know i've been guilty of it, but i missed everyone too much, so now i'm back...where are you, divine diva? март 27
	Carolпишет: Hello Elle, I hope you are doing well. I wish you a fantastic week ahead! ~~Hugs~~ Carol http://www.jacquielawson.com/viewcard.asp?cont=1&hdr=1&pv=MD01EN март 27
	Justinпишет: Elle... I'm so sorry that I have been absent from reading your space for so long. I hope all is well. From all you blogs it radiates your self belief. I am always drawn to your blogs and have to keep reading... It always says so much about you. As for your ideas on sex... I wouldn't call you old fashioned. Having sex like a man is all well and good for some. They say it is easier for them to detach themselves from the emotion that surrounds it. After all it's just sex right? Knowing both sides of the coin I know which I prefer... Sharing someones body after an emotional connection is so much better. It is worth any wait if you can call it that. Give me the choice to emotionally connect or just sleep with a girl and I know what I would choose, I suppose I am not the average guy but I agree with your 'old fashioned' ways! May you have the most amazing of days! JK март 23
	Bill Waywardпишет: My sweet Elle, The spring is upon us. As a male my thoughts of love have been all winter long. There is something about warmer weather that brings out the best in women. The lack of clothing. Luv u luv, Bill март 21
	Susanпишет: What do you do when you don't doubt the beauty but begin doubting everything else? I'm at a real low point right now, Elle. I keep thinking I need to get away but I can't think of one place that'd make me feel better. No place...no one...boy I'm down. I hope things are going good your way... март 21
	ηικκιħartпишет: Hi beautiful Elle, Just coming by to say hello, I hope you've been doing well. Luv and hugs, ღ´¨) ¸ .´¸.ღ´¨) ¸.ღ¨) (¸.´ (¸.` ღNikki*ღ март 20
	Posada Alanпишет: Dear Elle, It has been a while that I’ve been away from msn. I guess you could tell lol. This just happened in one of my down deep and darkest moments in life, only to be brought back by a beautiful new soul. I had de chance to presence the birth of my nephew and I deeply believe he gave me back the will to go on. I’ve never been in my happier. I really wish things are going great for you to and like to share a little of what I have right now (Or should I say good and innocent theft from my sister and brother in law) which by the way their generosity also aid on this new me. And talking aboutmagnet people. I think that your translucent aura it’s what channels/drives all your energy and attracts them to it. You are so beautiful in the inside and have the power or the gift to show it. Plus you are smart; let me say this again, very smart and social/human conscious that it is really great to have you among us walking on this earth. Plus, you are knocking gorgeous. Some times I find hard to believe that guys in whom you take interest are not capable to see it. It is so obvious they are either self-absorbed or definitely have one cheerio instead of gray matter. My Best Regards as always!!! ALAN март 20
	Rowe Stephen Craigпишет: Dear Elle, You know I had to put on the big sunglasses the very first time I read your words because you shine on and on. Beauty is as beauty does and you do it like no other. Confidence and bearing are signs that one does shine and has more to give than pearls. I wish you a very Happy Saint Patricks Day.......and as ever, be well. Love, Stephen Craig Rowe март 18
	Reyes Carlosпишет: G'Day Elle, That the luck of the Irish be always with you: http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd3/53456/images/SPD.gif Cheers from devil's land Carlos март 17
	Alexпишет: Have a good weekend whatever you're doing! That guy is out again tomorrow night and even though nothing happened has apparently been talking bout me all week! We'll see what happens. Fingers crossed xxxxxxxxxxxxxx март 17
	fuchs ernstпишет: hey darling! how are you doing these days? март 16
	Robbyпишет: Hi, what's up i'm Robby i'm italian boy and i love you SEATTLE city by the view side of NIRVANA....my best group...you come back and find me....on my blog!!!!bye bye март 16