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den 26 juni The Ex-Files[Just One of Best MSN Spaces ]  "Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em Take your space and take your reasons But you'll think of me.."  Dear Gabrielle,
Sometimes I wonder how it must feel for you to have an ex-girlfriend write to you in lurid details about her love life?
Do you find it strange at all? I have to admit, sometimes I do!
 Or do you find it all too funny? Yes, my misadventures can be hilarious once we get over the heartaches! Do you even feel a slight tinge of sympathy for me? Most people seem to do!!  How about a hint of jealousy? Let me be the first one to admit it. No matter how much you are over someone, it is the hardest thing in the world to imagine them with with someone else. Do you not agree?
Due to this reason alone I have never tried to dig up my ex's files. Ex-es, they are X-ed for a reason. But just late last week I found myself asking Shania.
"Do you wonder what's happened to your exes?"
Turned out we both do. Not because we have the desire to get back with them. Generally, ex-es are best forgotten. But there comes a time when little things trigger little memories. It starts you thinking of that someone.
You start wondering how they are. How do they look like now? Do they still wear that perfume that you loved so much? Do they still laugh at the same things? Do they look better with someone else?
I can never get used to this ex-factor Gabe. How can you spend so much time with someone, share the most intimate things with them and one day, they disappear from your life forever. How can someone be a perfect stranger, then turn into a best friend and ended up the perfect stranger again. Is it not just a waste of time?
I guess one could try and be friends with an ex. But the reality is that it is impossible. Someone is bound to carry residual feelings. I remember it took me over a year of clean break from you before we could even talk again. A clean break up is often neccessary to get over an ex completely.
Unfortunately, we are all guilty of not being able to let go of someone we love. Men are especially guilty of this. Many of my ex-es have left me fuming when they try to communicate with me months (even years) after our break up. I have no idea why I am so angry with them for trying to contact me. Maybe, they felt something that I missed. I guess I do not want to be reminded of what I have lost.
Now this weekend, I bumped into an ex. It took me ages to get over him. The second I saw him, my heart skipped a bit. I realised why I adored him in the first place. He spent the whole night flirting with me. I spent the whole night remembering exactly why we were not together. Although I was still attracted to him I knew nothing will change when it boils down to our relationship. It was a dead end.
Sure it is all good to be reminiscing about old times but one thing this girl has learnt is not to stare too long at closed doors. Especially when there are so many doors infront waiting to be opened. And maybe, just maybe, one of those doors, holds the key to a keeper. You never know..
Passionately Opening Doors,
Elle Sheri xo
(C) Elle Sheri. All Rights Reserved. *Excerpts from Keith Urban''You''ll Think of Me" * Ex-files images are of actors and not Elle's actual exes. Although some,it has to be said, may have a slight resemblance to the real things!! ;) Kommentarer (44)Logga in med ditt Windows Live ID (om du använder Hotmail, Messenger eller XBox LIVE har du ett Windows Live ID) om du vill lägga till en kommentar. Logga in Har du inget Windows Live-ID? Registrera
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